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12 Step Community The 12 Step Community is comprised of many anonymous programs. Narcotics Anonymous, Alcoholics Anonymous, Cocaine Anonymous, Al Anon, Nar Anon, just to name a few. 12 Step Recovery started in 2007 as an idea and has now grown to have many members throughout the world. We are excited to invite you to join our 12 Step Community and begin to meet each other and have conversations via NA chat or AA chat. We also have the ability for anyone in any 12 step fellowship to maintain their personal recovery blog. Our 12 Step Forum is a place to share opinions thoughts and ideas. In today's technology, a 12 Step Community is not fun without the ability to set up individual profiles with pictures and videos.

Membership is FREE. We look forward to meeting you online.


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12 Step Forum An internet forum or message board is an online discussion. Those of us who are active in the 12 Step Fellowship are familiar with being in the rooms sharing our experience, strength, and hope of recovery. The Forum on 12 Step Recovery is designed for all to see and only members of the 12 Step Community to be able to post threads (which are online and ongoing discussions) and comment on other peoples discussions. We look forward to seeing you in the forum.


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12 Step Chat Our Chat feature is designed for members only. When you set your profile up as a member, you will be able to cruise around the site while chatting with your friends. One of the coolest features is that you can chat with your friends, or meet new ones from all over the world. The internet allows those of us in recovery to chat with anyone, anywhere, anytime. So invite your friends and chat for a while. Looking forward to talking to you soon.


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12 Step Blogs In the Fellowship of Narcotics Anonymous and the Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous, as with all 12 Step Fellowships, we are thought early on to journal. A blog is like a personal website that is maintained by one person sharing their thoughts and feelings with regular entries. Being a part of the 12 Step Recovery Community allows you to have a personal blog, and in addition to writing and sharing events, you can share pictures of yourself and things that you like to do and also share videos. Most Blogs will have a combination of your likes, dislikes, events you attend, and anything else you feel like sharing from a written perspective. Looking forward to hearing your story.


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Step 11

12steprecovery recieved this content for step 11, we do not know the origin of the article. Enjoy.

Step Eleven suggests prayer and meditation.

Step 11, page 86 was my entree into formal step action. A night meeting speaker dwelled upon each sentence from "On awakening to end of chapter..........."

I was desperate at a sober bottom. Each morning thereafter, I did pick up the Big Book and contemplated each sentence/direction.

Recently, almost 19 years later, I realized that the first directions help clear the mind. Then, it shifts to contemplation about higher power and directive to other sources.

BigBook page 86 STEP 11 
When we retire at night, we constructively review our day.

Were we resentful,

Ponder each of these separately.

selfish, I started Big Book step 4 work during this period. dishonest or I learned to quickly spot these defects with steps 4 and 5.. afraid?

Identify specific fears.

Do we owe an apology?

This gets better as 4 through 9 are worked.

Have we kept something to ourselves which should be discussed with another person at once?

AA emphasizes quick action or decision for non-action.

Were we kind and loving toward all?

Recovered people act this way.

What could we have done better?

A time to learn better communication and other skills.

Were we thinking of ourselves most of the time?

The old bondage of self !

Or were we thinking of what we could do for others, of what we could pack into the stream of life?

By self forgetting one finds - 12&12page99.

But we must be careful not to drift into worry, remorse or morbid reflection, for that would diminish our usefulness to others.

No matter how we feel, do God's will.

After making our review we ask God's forgiveness and inquire what corrective measures should be taken.

Research how recovered people handle similar situations.

On awakening

let us think about the twenty-four hours ahead.

Set aside 20 minutes or more for morning step 11 work.

We consider our plans for the day.

NOTE - not yesterday, but each morning, plan the day. Some things need preparation, of course. I pin down as little time as possible. This leaves time open for pleasant surprises. Keep it simple. I don't waste driving for things that can be combined with necesary trips. I accomplish tasks a bit at a time rather than obsessive planning. Many things are never *finished*, but, they do the job.

Before we begin, we ask God to direct our thinking, especially asking that it be divorced from self-pity, dishonest or self-seeking motives.

I am directed not to whine at meetings. One to one is aappropriate for details of problems.

And at 62, (now 65 - 2/22/99) I can't remember my problems!

God gave us brains to use.

We research God's will. We grow in effectiveness. We can learn communication skills. Etc. etc.

Our thought-life will be placed on a much higher plane when our thinking is cleared of wrong motives. In thinking about our day we may face indecision.

Try to spot this feeling. It subtly can overtake us.

We may not be able to determine which course to take.

There is definite action, if we choose not to be trapped in bondage of self. From the 12&12 step 5,

"It is worth noting that even people of very high spiritual development check out with friends and spiritual advisors the guidance they feel they have received from God."

Here we ask God for inspiration, an intuitive thought or a decision.

Reread page 84 about definite action. "We continue to watch for..................

We relax and take it easy.

I slowed driving when this direction popped into my head after days of step 11 repetition.

We don't struggle.

When something aint working, stop, give it a rest or perhaps it's not meant to be.
Again, see the page 84 directions.

__Page 87

We usually conclude the period of meditation with a prayer that we be shown all through the day what our next step is to be, that we be given whatever we need to take care of such problems.

I don't feel qualified to improve on any of the prayers in the Big Book or 12&12. They work fine!

We ask especially for freedom from self-will, and are careful to make no request for ourselves only. We may ask for ourselves, however, if others will be helped. We are careful never to pray for our own selfish ends. If circumstances warrant, we ask our wives or friends to join us in morning meditation. If we belong to a religious denomination which requires a definite morning devotion, we attend to that also. If not members of religious bodies, we sometimes select and memorize a few set prayers which emphasize the principles we have been discussing. There are many helpful books also. Suggestions about these may be obtained from one's priest, minister, or rabbi.

Other AA literature, the traditions, concepts, have guidance on how to act in specific situations.

Be quick to see where religious people are right. Make use of what they offer.

They may not all be right, but try to see where anyone may be right.

As we go through the day we pause, when agitated or doubtful, and ask for the right thought or action.

Again, take a break. Again check out 84 directions.

We constantly remind ourselves we are no longer running the show, humbly saying to ourselves many times each day "Thy will be done." But this is not all. There is action and more action. "Faith without works is dead."

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NA - How it Works


If you want what we have to offer, and are willing to make the effort to get it, then you are ready to take certain steps. These are the principles that made our recovery possible.

  1. We admitted that we were powerless over our addiction, that our lives had become unmanageable.
  2. We came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
  3. We made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
  4. We made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.

AA - How It Works

Rarely have we seen a person fail who has thoroughly followed our path. Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program, usually men and women who are constitutionally incapable of being honest with themselves. There are such unfortunates. They are not at fault; they seem to have been born that way. They are naturally incapable of grasping and developing a manner of living which demands rigorous honesty. Their chances are less than average.

12 step alternatives such as SMART Recovery are helping those individuals that have an aversion to the twelve step philospphy. Needed information on alternatives for those seeking alcohol treatment programs and drug rehab are here.

Q. How do I contact SMART Recovery®?

A. The national office is:

Drug Rehab Information


There are many free options to get help for substance abuse and drug dependency in todays market. 12 Step Programs such as Narcotics Anonymous and Alcoholics Anonymous are free. However, many people need detox and a treatment facility. This web page is written to help guide some one through the drug rehab process.

 

Intervention

An Interventionist specializes with addicts and their families stuggling with with life threatening problems such as drug addiction. Drug intervention, alcohol intervention, eating disorders, trauma and crisis are very dificult things to face alone. Many families can hit their bottom with the addicts behavior and get the person suffering the help they need. However, there are times when an intervention is necessary. Usually an interventionist is called when the family

Creating a resource page is not as easy as one might think. I have chosen to link only to sites that offer 12 step information on 12 step programs or 12 step alternative programs, non-profit programs, research sites that specialize in addiction treatment or directories that are free or very low cost that help the public find drug rehab programs.  However, you may register and put a link to your site or post in the forum and put a link to your site.

12 Step Recovery Daily Meditation

If you would lik to read a Daily Meditation from the book Just for Today from Narcotics Anonymous.

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