“We want and demand that things always go our way. We should know from our past experience that our way of doing things did not work.”
Surrendering self-will is a cornerstone of recovery. Self-will often manifests as a relentless pursuit of control, where we impose our desires on others and expect the world to conform to our plans. While having goals and taking action is vital, recovery teaches us to align our efforts with the will of a Higher Power. In doing so, we find peace, connection, and a path that leads to true fulfillment.
Living by self-will is a recipe for frustration and conflict. When we are driven solely by our own desires, we lose sight of the bigger picture. We become self-centered, ignoring the needs of others and the wisdom of a Higher Power.
In recovery, we learn that relying solely on self-will is not sustainable. It leads us back to the same chaos and dissatisfaction that addiction brought into our lives.
Surrendering self-will is not about abandoning responsibility or ambition. It’s about acknowledging that we are part of something greater and aligning our actions with the guidance of a Higher Power. This surrender brings a profound sense of freedom and peace.
Benefits of Surrender:
When we surrender self-will, we move from chaos to harmony, discovering a life that flows with greater ease.
Recovery doesn’t mean we stop thinking for ourselves or making plans. Instead, it encourages us to act responsibly while seeking alignment with God’s will. This balance allows us to take initiative without falling into the trap of self-centeredness.
By balancing initiative with surrender, we create a life that is both purposeful and peaceful.
There are moments when we realize we are at odds with the world around us, driven by self-will and frustration. In these times, recovery invites us to step back and surrender.
“If I find myself at odds with everything around me, I will surrender self-will.”
Surrendering doesn’t mean giving up; it means letting go of the need to force outcomes. It’s an act of faith that allows us to realign with God’s will and find our way back to serenity.
The journey of recovery is about learning to live in harmony with ourselves, others, and our Higher Power. By surrendering self-will and seeking God’s guidance, we free ourselves from the struggle of trying to control everything. In this surrender, we find a life of balance, peace, and purpose.
Just for today: I will plan to do God’s will, not mine. If I find myself at odds with everything around me, I will surrender self-will.