“Having had a spiritual awakening as a result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to addicts, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.”
Carrying the message to other addicts is a cornerstone of recovery, embodying the essence of Step Twelve. However, it’s natural to question the outcome when our efforts don’t appear to succeed. Recovery reminds us that there is no such thing as a “failed” Twelfth Step call. Regardless of the immediate results, our actions have lasting impact—not only for others but for ourselves.
Every time we share our experience, strength, and hope with another addict, we plant the seed of recovery. The prospect may not immediately embrace the program, but our words and actions can take root over time, becoming a source of hope when they are ready to seek change.
The act of carrying the message is meaningful, even if we never witness its full impact.
Participating in a Twelfth Step call benefits both the person receiving the message and the one delivering it. Even if the individual doesn’t respond as we hoped, the act of sharing strengthens our own recovery and deepens our gratitude.
“Rarely does a recovering addict leave a Twelve Step call with anything but a deep dose of gratitude.”
In giving, we receive—whether or not the recipient accepts the message.
The Twelfth Step is not limited to formal outreach or calls. Often, we embody its principles simply by living in recovery. Our coworkers, neighbors, and acquaintances may observe our transformation and see the benefits of the program through our actions.
“We are often the best attraction that NA has to offer.”
By living as an example, we carry the message in ways we might not even realize.
The Twelfth Step reflects a profound truth: in giving, we receive. When we share our journey with others, we deepen our connection to recovery, strengthen our spiritual foundation, and experience the joy of helping another human being.
Whether or not the person we reach out to accepts our help, the act of offering it enriches our lives.
Just for today: I will remember that I am a living example of the Twelfth Step. I cannot “fail” when I try to carry the message to another addict.