Just for Today – December 1 – Life’s Rewards

“We begin to pray only for God’s will for us. That way, we get only what we are capable of handling.”
– Basic Text, page 47

Recovery teaches us the value of patience, humility, and effort. While it may be tempting to wish for life’s rewards to come easily, the truth is that unearned blessings often bring unexpected burdens. By focusing our prayers on seeking God’s will and the strength to carry it out, we align ourselves with a reality we can manage and a life of true growth and fulfillment.

The Challenges of Unearned Rewards

Imagine receiving everything you’ve ever desired with no effort: wealth, status, recognition. At first glance, it might seem like a dream come true. But consider the responsibility, pressure, and potential chaos that accompany unearned success.

• Financial Windfalls: A sudden influx of money might come with unfamiliar responsibilities—budgeting, taxes, and managing expectations from others.
• Prestige Without Merit: Recognition for accomplishments we haven’t earned could lead to feelings of inadequacy or fear of being exposed.
• Material Possessions: Luxuries like expensive cars bring hidden costs, like maintenance and insurance, that may outweigh their initial appeal.

These scenarios highlight the importance of being prepared for the rewards we seek. Without the growth and learning that come from earning our blessings, we may find ourselves overwhelmed by their consequences.

Living in the Real World

Recovery reminds us that we live in the real world, where actions have consequences and rewards are earned through effort and perseverance. This principle helps us build a life grounded in integrity and self-respect.

When we pray for guidance, we focus on understanding and fulfilling God’s will rather than seeking shortcuts or instant gratification. This approach ensures that we grow into the responsibilities and blessings we receive, allowing us to manage them with confidence and grace.

Praying for God’s Will

The Eleventh Step teaches us to pray for “knowledge of God’s will for us and the power to carry that out.” This simple yet profound prayer keeps us grounded and aligned with spiritual principles.

Benefits of Praying for God’s Will:

1. Clarity: By seeking God’s will, we gain insight into what truly matters, avoiding distractions and unnecessary desires.
2. Strength: Praying for the power to carry out God’s will equips us to face challenges with courage and resilience.
3. Balance: Trusting in God’s timing and wisdom helps us avoid taking on more than we can handle.

This practice fosters a sense of peace and purpose, as we learn to trust that we will receive what we need, when we need it.

Earning Life’s Rewards

When we work for our rewards, we develop the skills and maturity needed to manage them. This process is a vital part of recovery, teaching us patience, discipline, and responsibility.

• Personal Growth: Effort leads to self-improvement, helping us build confidence and resilience.
• Appreciation: Earned rewards feel more meaningful because they reflect our hard work and dedication.
• Preparedness: Through gradual progress, we gain the tools and experience needed to handle life’s opportunities and challenges.

By embracing the journey rather than focusing solely on the destination, we find greater satisfaction and fulfillment.

Aligning with God’s Plan

Recovery reminds us that God’s plan often exceeds our own understanding. When we surrender our will and trust in a Higher Power, we open ourselves to opportunities and blessings that align with our true purpose.

Instead of seeking instant gratification, we focus on living with integrity, making steady progress, and accepting life as it unfolds. This alignment brings a sense of harmony and contentment, even in the face of uncertainty.