Just for Today – December 17 – Service Motives

“Everything that occurs in the course of NA service must be motivated by the desire to more successfully carry the message of recovery to the addict who still suffers.”
– Basic Text, page xvi

Service is a cornerstone of recovery, allowing us to give back what was freely given to us. However, our motives for serving can shape the impact we have on others and on the fellowship as a whole. When our service is driven by selfless intentions, it becomes a powerful tool to carry the message of recovery. Conversely, self-centered motives can hinder our efforts and even push others away.

The Importance of Motives

Our motives—whether conscious or unconscious—determine the spirit in which we serve. Early in recovery, we may jump into service roles with enthusiasm but little self-awareness.

Common Self-Centered Motives in Service:

1. Seeking Recognition: Wanting to appear important or talented to others.
2. Gaining Control: Using service positions to exert authority or influence.
3. Fulfilling Personal Agendas: Pursuing service opportunities that primarily benefit ourselves.

While these motives may not be harmful in other settings, they can detract from the primary purpose of NA service: helping addicts recover.

Checking Our Motives

One of the greatest gifts of recovery is the ability to examine ourselves honestly. Regular motive-checking helps ensure that our service is aligned with the principles of NA.

How to Check Your Motives:

• Prayer and Meditation: Ask for guidance from your Higher Power to serve with humility and selflessness.
• Step Work: Use the steps to identify and address self-centered tendencies.
• Honest Conversations: Seek feedback from your sponsor or trusted NA members about your motives.
• Pause and Reflect: Before taking action, ask yourself, “Is this truly about helping others, or about fulfilling my own desires?”

By regularly examining our intentions, we create an atmosphere of genuine service that is attractive to those seeking recovery.

The Spirit of Service

When our service is rooted in the desire to help others, it reflects the principles of recovery and strengthens the fellowship.

Characteristics of Selfless Service:

1. Humility: Acknowledging that our role is to serve, not to lead or control.
2. Unity: Working collaboratively with others to carry the message.
3. Empathy: Focusing on the needs of the addict who still suffers, rather than on our own preferences.
4. Gratitude: Recognizing service as a privilege, not a chore.

Selfless service fosters a welcoming and supportive environment where newcomers feel safe and inspired to stay.

Growth Through Service

Engaging in NA service not only helps others but also helps us grow. By serving with pure motives, we:

• Deepen Our Recovery: Practicing selflessness strengthens our spiritual foundation.
• Enhance Our Relationships: Working with others in service fosters connection and unity.
• Reinforce Our Commitment: Serving reminds us of the importance of the program in our lives.

Service is both a gift we give and a gift we receive, enriching our lives while helping others find freedom from addiction.